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Nkechi's avatar

This write up is beautiful! An eye opener too. Many people are rotting away gradually and they are unaware. Thanks for the courage to put this together.

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Elder's avatar

You are most welcome Nkechi, and i am glad you enjoyed reading this as much as i enjoyed writing it.

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Miss Lita's avatar

Many people are stuck in negative environmemts because they are afraud of the queation "if i leave what next" but the correct question should be, is this how my life ahould be till i leave this earth.!? Thanks for this writeup

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Mvuselelo's avatar

True

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Ajibola Oluwafunmilola's avatar

Hmm.. talking about what people don't like to talk about🥂

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Pauline's avatar

Thank you for this wonderful piece

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Saio Alma Kamara's avatar

I have been in this toxicity for like my whole life now I have been subjected to believe that there is no way out but to ensure and this feels like a way out 🙌to tell you the truth after reading this piece it just feels like a burden take off my shoulder 🤗🙌I am ready to leave and be happy if even is the last thing I have to do for myself 🤗🤗🤗🙌🙌🙏

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Miss Me's avatar

I like this for us Ade💪🏻

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Karabo Prisca Mphahlele's avatar

Point 5 and 6 hit home😭😭. Thank God I no longer work for that toxic place bandla🥺. I would have died

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Anowa princewill's avatar

It feels like you are talking to me personally 🥺, thank you so much for this sir.....have learnt something today🙏🏾

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Big N's avatar

The best option is to LEAVE. When you act all tough and stay, you become submerged in it and become damaged yourself. Toxicity clings really fast when you breathe it in everyday. There's more. Look around you..

Thank you so much for this reaffirmation. I keep telling myself to live a little everyday.

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Fiyinfoluwa Ayoola's avatar

“Don’t allow always looking forward to the anticipated and unexpected, stop you from living your life in the present”💯

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abiola akintoye's avatar

Thanks for this write up I really enjoyed it. More ink into your pen!

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Abigail Peters's avatar

Beautiful write up. I love it

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Doro🏝's avatar

Many people are going through a lot in life and sometimes we don’t talk about it, i am an example of it so i understand this master piece very well, kudos Adekunle 💛✍🏾

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Saio Alma Kamara's avatar

May God continue to uplift you🙏🙏🙏❤️King of islanders

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Saio Alma Kamara's avatar

Dear adekunle

You just build my confidence . You rescued me from what I always thought I could not don🙌I now know the exit point will be the best decision I ever made . This is an eye opener to this generation ✍️💯❤️❤️❤️🙏

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